Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Herbert Jones with the following comment:
I have just found out that my father is called Peter Jones and he is the son of Herbert Jones (but I am sure it was John Herbert Jones) and Herbert Jones's wife is Lilian Jones. The last recorded address I have for the family was 32 Aldsworth Road, (nr Cowbridge Road - this is where Peter was born) in Canton Cardiff. I have checked the death registers and it would seem that my father Peter is still alive, his date of birth is 1st April 1945, I have the birth certificate on its way to me.